I can related to hyeri, is frustrating to get help of someone else when you thought you could handle the situation, the pide is hurt and got angry because there's an intrusive thought that the person who helped you took pity on you and that's why is helping... Is not healthy think that way, but that just the consequence of some f* trauma
Trauma or emotional immaturity? It’s understandable to feel embarrassed and pitied when someone you respect sees you in a compromised or unfavourable situation however she is redirecting her ill feelings to someone completely unrelated and that is textbook emotional immaturity.